Seldom in life have things turned out to be what I had envisioned. That was 2014 in a nutshell.
But to get to 2014 we have to back up a bit. I’d mentioned in 2012 about our kitchen remodel as a result of the great laundry flood in our home. We designed a kitchen that we loved with 2 sinks (every kitchen needs 2 sinks). I really enjoyed the flow of our house once the walls came down and we had a more open floor plan.
Hubby mentioned to me at some point after renovations were done, that this would be the best time to sell our home to gain the most profit, since we had a newly renovated kitchen.
I was not so keen on the idea, but as a few months passed, I started to see the wisdom in this plan. There were several reasons we had for deciding to move, but there were two main ones.
Our bedroom situation was not working out the best. We had a 3 bed 2.5 bath home, with fairly big bedrooms. But when we bought the house we had no way of knowing that we would have 5 girls and 1 boy. It just really was not fair to all the girls to pile them in to one bedroom while our son had a room to himself. Since all the kids were still young, we knew we still had a few years before we had to separate the boys and girls, but we knew that we would eventually do this.
The more pressing reason was my health issues. I had always had some issues with driving visibility at night, but the Fibromyalgia seemed to only exasperate the problem. We lived out-of-town, on a dark road, and often I could not see at all to drive. Therefore, any activities or social engagements that we wanted to participate in required Hubby to escort me to them. Whereas, in town where there was good lighting I could drive as long as it was not raining, I was always dependent upon him. Grocery shopping could be difficult with 6 young children, so I would prefer going at night, but then again I could not drive at night, so often Hubby would drive me into town, and sit in the van with the kids while I shopped.
We determined that moving into town, closer to things would be less of a hardship on our family since some of these health issues where largely impacting the quality of family life.
So, in September of 2013 we put our home up on the market. We averaged about 2 showings a week, with a lot of positive feedback, but no offers.
In November, Hubby was approached with a new job offer for a company in a different city. We spent time praying about the offer for several weeks, and we had great peace with moving forward in this opportunity.
We were excited about moving to a new location, because we never intended to be in this city for so long. This was just were he had gotten a job after college and we had never left. We were thrilled with the idea of exploring a new city together and starting again in another place. We loved the friends that we had made here and had a great homeschool network, but we were aching for adventure. We also had so much fun looking for homes in this new city. There was a marked difference in the type of homes available. We also found that our dollars went so much further in this new city for the type of home you could purchase. We were looking for a home that could comfortably accommodate our large family, have a designated area for homeschooling, a room for the boy, and 2 rooms for the girls to divide, plus a guest room. This was easily doable in the new town, whereas it had been hard to find in our current town within our budget.
We found a beautiful 5 bedroom 3.5 bath home, with a game room, office, butlers pantry, and 2 extra huge bonus closets – one of which was going to be the craft room that we have always dreamed of.
The backyard had a section already fenced off for a dog (the girls had been promised a dog once we moved) and it had a beautiful pool with a slide, surrounded by flagstone decking.
We were set to close and move in mid January of 2014.
to be continued……